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Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...... its about learning to dance in the rain.

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About Me:
Stop telling God how big your storm is. Instead, tell the storm how big your God is!


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Hello. My name is Peggy and I started smoking when I was 15 years old. I was heavily dependent on those nasty little suckers for over 26 years. I "tried" numerous times to quit in numerous different ways all of which failed miserably. In fact, the last failed attempt before this successful quit left me believing with every ounce of my being that I was just gonna have to die a smoker cuz I just didn't have what it took to quit.

And, I was kinda right. I didn't have the necessary mindset nor a good support system up to that point. But I did with this quit and I had my last cigarette on 2/3/2005 10:00 pm - Not so much as one drag since! I'm here to help you all to make the smoke-free journey from where you are, to where I am. I've been where you are and I'd like very much for you to be where I now am.

I've been happily married for 21+ years. I have a 20 year old daughter, a 33 year old stepson, a 30 year old step-daughter, and 3 grandchildren aged 14, 11 and 3. Not to mention the numerous critters that are a part of our family. We were raised in small-town Michigan, moved to the big-city Denver, Colorado area in 1986, and moved to small-town Oklahoma in 2002. We live on a 15 acre mini-ranch in southeastern Oklahoma and love every minute of being back in a small town.

Enough about me... let's get you quit, whatdaya say?



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REALLY listen to the words in this song and APPLY them to your life!!



Those convinced against their will… are of the same opinion still

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There is none so blind as those who will not see.

Some Candid advice from Dr. Bob, lol.

REMEMBER... Wanting the craving to go away is NOT the same thing as wanting a cigarette!!

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Nicotine doesn’t relieve it, it causes it....Allen Carr

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DON'T GIVE UP BY GIVING IN!

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Would you rather be a quitter who sometimes thinks about smoking, or a smoker who ALWAYS thinks about quitting?

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Some encouraging words:
What happens to us during the course of our lives is not nearly as important as how we react to it. Thank goodness our reactions are our choice.

Life is a self-fulfilling prophecy. More times than not, we will get what we expect.

Smokers don’t get to smoke. They have to smoke.

If you're happy with who you are, where you're at and what you have - keep doing what you've been doing. But, if you want to be something you've never been, go somewhere you've never gone, or have something you've never had - you have to do something that you've never done.

Life is not the way it's supposed to be. It's the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.

Cigarette: A fire at one end, a fool at the other, and a bit of tobacco in between.

You gotta give it away to keep it.

The task ahead of you is never as great as the power behind you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

The cigarette does the smoking - you're just the sucker

The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settle for.

If you expect great things from folks, they will expect it from themselves.

Sooner or later, everyone stops smoking.

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Life’s real failure is when you do not realize how close you were to success when you gave up.

If there exists no possibility of failure, then victory is meaningless.

Cigarettes are killers that travel in packs.

The future you see is the future you get.

A man may fall many times, but he won’t be a failure until he says that someone pushed him.

There are no shortcuts to any place worth going.

A cigarette is the only consumer product which when used as directed kills its consumer.

He who fails to plan, plans to fail.

All it takes for evil to flourish is for good men to do nothing.

Misery is almost always the result of thinking.

Don’t let your victories go to your head, or your failures go to your heart.

One thousand Americans stop smoking every day - by dying.

Video break... Enjoy watching my favorite Rodeo Drill Team.

Knowledge talks, wisdom listens.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me !

Do or do not. There is no try.

The believing we do something when we do nothing is the first illusion of tobacco.

To think too long about doing a thing often becomes its undoing.

There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.

Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.

The only safer cigarette is your last one.

What you get by achieving your goal is not as important as what you become by achieving your goal.

When I am anxious it is because I am living in the future. When I am depressed it is because I am living in the past.

You can avoid reality, but you cannot avoid the consequences of avoiding reality.

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YOU CAN TO THIS!!!!
IF SOMEONE LIKE ME CAN BECOME A HAPPY AND WELL-ADJUSTED NON-SMOKER, SO CAN ANY OF YOU!!

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AHHHHH!!! I'M STRESSING AND I NEED A CIGARETTE!! Cheryl's blog will shed some new light on your dilemma so please click here first!


Do you need to hear that you can quit... NO MATTER WHAT? Click here and read Papa Jimmy's VERY wise words!



* * * LINKS TO MY BLOGS * * *

Do you know what QuitTude is? It's what'll get you to your goal! Click here to find out more.

Do you feel that you're "giving up" smoking? Click here for a different perspective.

Do ya want some start up advice from an old timer? Click here.

Are you thinking about smoking that one cigarette? Quick!! Click here to read this first!

Do you need some inspiration to choose to be positive every day? Click here

Are you needing some real-deal input about ‘trying’ to quit? Click here

Do you want to see a collaborative and powerful list of the actuality of our smoking? This ones for you.

Are you interested in some insightful things that were learned by those who’ve gone before you? Click here

Are you struggling and don’t know why? This might shed a little light.

Do you need to hear that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel – and it isn’t a train? Click here

Do you want the real scoop on cravings? Click here

Are you ready for a funny, “I SO-can relate to that” rendition of the steps that lead to quitting? Click here

Are you Craving? Jonesing for a smoke? Nic-fittin’ like crazy? This might help you put things into perspective.

Are you ready for a bit of quit honesty about this darned quit? Click here

Do you feel like you’re n a roller coaster ride? Click here

Did something “make” you upset? Click here

Need a few inspirational tidbits that might make you feel stronger? Click here

Want to know the advantages of being a smoker? Click here

Is smoking on your mind… constantly? Click here

Ever wonder what in the heck all these long-term quitters are doing hanging around a quit smoking support site? Click here for the answer.

Do you think you’re just more addicted then others and that’s why you “can’t” quit as easily? Click here for a must read for you.

Do you feel that you NEED your cigarettes? Click here

What’s going on with these withdrawals? Wanna know the science behind your nicotine addiction? Click here

Did you know that simply wishing that you didn't smoke is not even close to being the same as wanting to quit? Click here for the explanation

Do you need a quick little positive thought for the day? Click here

Do things seem to be spinning out of control? Click here

Are you wondering what we’re all doing here on Ex anyway? Here’s an analogy for ya.

Do you need help putting this addiction into perspective? Click here

Wanna know my feelings about a relapse? Click here

Wanna know what it takes to NOT relapse? Click here

Do you like poetry? Here’s a great quit smoking poem for you.

Click here for… A quick reminder to stand strong

Click here for… See, even elders have smoking dreams


My personal quit stories…
Are you interested in what MY quit was like early on? Want to “compare where I was at any given point in my early quit to where you are at the same time? Are you wondering if us ‘elders’ struggled with the same issues as you… or are you thinking that my quit was all peaches and cream? Read the details here… Some actual posts of my in-the-moment, crawling-out-of-my-skin early quit posts.


My Hell Week – Week #1

My Heck Week and Weak Week – Weeks 2 and 3

My weeks 4 through 8

The beginning of my second month

The end of my second month

My month #3

4 months for me

My 5th month

WoooHooo… 6 months for me!!

My month #7

My first Thanksgiving – I would have been at 9-1/2 months

Just venting about my daughter being a smoker…


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IN CASE YOU DIDN'T SEE THIS UPDATE on the site...

Posted on November 13, 2009 at 6:00pm —

ckoalaco

Just an FYI on the site transition...

Posted on November 9, 2009 at 8:43am — 5 Comments

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At 3:35pm on November 12, 2009, marie Burgess said…
I love your comment about dancing in the rain, I need to write that quote down and read it over and over everyday until I can live it. Is it yours? I am kind of stressing out over the new site but telling myself to hang in there. I made some progress today I actually was able to access my site. I dont know what the elgg message is all about but I guess I am not the only one that is having this issue so I will hope it get worked out soon.Maybe we will all have a good laugh about this after is becomes common place let us all hope that day comes soon
At 3:05pm on November 12, 2009, Legend said…
Yesterday I put what was going on with my page on the blog on the front page also.
At 3:03pm on November 12, 2009, Legend said…
I put this on the blog on the front page

Ok I have discovered something that has been going on with my address at the new site. Yesterday my address was showing it was http://elgg.becomeanex.org/pg/profile/bex_user_21912 notice that it has the elgg at the beginning of it. Yesterday when I was on my page I got a note saying this when I was already logged on my page ……….. welcome to ELGG. Then it says under that Elgg couldn't connect to the database using the given credentials. Ok now today when I got on my page I bookmarked it again and copy pasted it and noticed that the address had changed. I tried the old address and it goes to my page but it won’t let my page through all the way the widgets are messed up. These are the two addresses that I have had in two days now see the difference in them. Now my page is merging with other pages today.
http://elgg.becomeanex.org/pg/profile/bex_user_21912
http://community.becomeanex.org/pg/profile/bex_user_21912
At 3:02pm on November 12, 2009, Legend said…
My page will look ok if you get on it but it is not ok when I am on it moving around on other pages. It is messed up.
At 2:59pm on November 12, 2009, Legend said…
I just put a comment on the front page blog my page is merging with others today. I can get in but my page is going nuts.
At 11:10am on November 12, 2009, Legend said…
I got back on my page today but some other strange stuff is happening now. When I go to someone else’s page my friends list, comments, groups is on their page but it says their name and has their profile information on it not mine. I have to hit the refresh button for their page to look like their page not part of my page also. It is like part of my page is merged with the page I am on. Kinda freaky when I first saw it.
At 6:26am on November 12, 2009, barbara said…
i just got on and it is the old thing on my page, not the one i had, this is all messed up, and like what legend says, it has been telling me the same thing untill now, it is all messed up
At 3:34pm on November 11, 2009, Legend said…
I just got booted off of my own page at the new site it won’t let me sign in. It tells me now welcome to ELGG. Then it says under that Elgg couldn't connect to the database using the given credentials. I kept trying to get on it just won’t let me. I was signed in when this happened and now I cant get signed back in. GRRRRRRRR!!!!!
At 6:22am on November 11, 2009, Linda N said…
HAPPY WEDNESDAY Pictures, Images and Photos
At 5:51am on November 11, 2009, Spunkie said…
Lots of new parties at QPC

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Smoke Free and Loving It... Just... Paying It Forward !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
At 4:29pm on November 10, 2009, ckoalaco said…
Update:

This new site transition really isn't that bad guys!! I'm already figuring things out over there and if I can get comfortable with it, anyone can, lol. If anyone needs help - give me a holler. Email notifications seem to be turned off and I have no idea how much longer this site will remain active but I am trying to at least check my page, both here and on the new site, a few times every day, Holler if you are having trouble and we'll get you on the right track. Like I said... no biggie here. Much ado about nothing!!

See you all at our new home!!
At 1:57pm on November 10, 2009, Spunkie said…
Work wonderful hope Carlie gets on Thanks for all your work for us .l

GOD BLESS

I am just staying calm and everything is going to be fine.....
At 12:58pm on November 9, 2009, Spunkie said…
I can't get signed in to the new site now I was signed in do you think the site is just down or am I doing something wrong??? Thanks so much ckoalaco for all your info on the new site.
At 8:44am on November 9, 2009, ckoalaco said…
K all...

The site is in transition. The old URL... Becomeanex.ning.com ... Will be ending. They are trying to transfer everything over to the new URL http://community.becomeanex.org . So please start using this new URL because it will be the only way to access community very soon. This new URL is currently working and we are all being encouraged to start using it and providing support there.

Make sure you have signed up for the Ex plan - use your same email addy and password as you were using to log on to the old URL for the support community. That will be the way into all of your old stuff. Our pages are still there, as are our blogs and such... They are just formatted a bit differently.

Our pages look different and everything seems a bit "off"... But the old Ex site did when I first logged on to it too, lol. I'm still fishing my way around but it looks like you can click on the "Edit Page" link at the top right side of your page on the new site and add "wigets". Your groups list, comment wall, blogs and all are there... Just move them over to where you want them to appear on your page on the hew site. It's not exactly the same... And so far I think I like the old format better... But this isn't any real big deal and the merging of the Ex plan site and the community support site will be of a benefit to many.

Just hang in there guys.
At 5:24am on November 9, 2009, Linda N said…
Monday Pictures, Images and Photos :) Good morning Peggy, how are you? <3
At 6:11am on November 8, 2009, Spunkie said…
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SMOKE FREE AND LOVING IT... JUST... PAYING IT FORWARD !!!!!!!

Please let me know what you think of the new site they say this one is going to close down soon and I see we are no longer getting new members here. I hate not having comments pages we can't even see what each other is sharing and I do not think you can send a message to all your friends.. I am so sad about this the site has been what has kept me from breaking my quit I know it in my heart .. I will have to ask God to carry me some more because I am having a terrible time over this change it is like someone took my cig's away for the second time and I have to quit all over .. I had became so addicted to this page.
At 6:13am on November 6, 2009, Linda N said…
Happy Friday Pictures, Images and Photos :) Good morning Peggy, wishing you a wonderful weekend my friend<3
At 7:15am on November 5, 2009, Spunkie said…
happy thursday Pictures, Images and Photos

Smoke Free and Loving It ... Just ... Paying it Forward !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
At 6:01am on November 5, 2009, Linda N said…
Beautiful morning Pictures, Images and Photos
At 5:36am on November 4, 2009, Linda N said…
good day Pictures, Images and Photos
 
 

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